Mr. Wrong

1996 5 min read By VHS Heaven Team

Okay, fellow tape travelers, let's rewind to a strange little corner of the mid-90s video store shelf. Remember stumbling across a brightly colored box, maybe expecting a standard quirky rom-com starring that funny lady from stand-up, Ellen DeGeneres? And then… things got weird? That, my friends, was the singular experience of renting Mr. Wrong (1996), a film that tried to blend meet-cute sweetness with Fatal Attraction-level obsession, resulting in something… well, unforgettable, if not entirely successful.

From Dream Date to Nightmare Roommate

The setup feels classic 90s: Martha Alston (Ellen DeGeneres), a bubbly, single TV producer, is feeling the pressure from her family (especially her hilariously over-the-top married sister, played to perfection by Joan Cusack) to settle down. Enter Whitman Crawford (Bill Pullman), handsome, charming, seemingly perfect. He writes poetry! He's romantic! He sweeps Martha off her feet! It all seems ripped from the rom-com playbook, directed by Nick Castle – a name many might associate more with the iconic chills of Halloween (1978) or the pioneering CGI adventure The Last Starfighter (1984) than lighthearted romance. Perhaps that directorial pedigree was a hint of the tonal swerve to come.

Because, as Martha soon discovers, Whitman isn't just Mr. Right; he's profoundly, dangerously Mr. Wrong. The quirky eccentricities quickly curdle into disturbing possessiveness, creepy behavior, and outright psychotic tendencies. This isn't just a case of "he leaves the toilet seat up"; it's more "he might chain you to the radiator while reciting terrible love poems." It's a jarring shift, and reportedly DeGeneres herself had reservations about how dark the script, penned by Chris Matheson, Kerry Ehrin, and Craig Munson, ultimately became. You can almost feel that tension on screen – the film wants to be funny, it wants to be scary, and it sometimes trips over its own feet trying to be both simultaneously.

Pullman Steals the Show (and Maybe Your Sanity)

While this was designed as a star vehicle for DeGeneres in her first leading film role, the movie truly belongs to Bill Pullman. Fresh off charming audiences in While You Were Sleeping (1995) and just before saving the world in Independence Day (1996), Pullman dives headfirst into Whitman's unhinged personality. He somehow makes lines like "You naughty dirt devil!" sound genuinely menacing. His performance oscillates wildly between goofy charm and chilling intensity, creating a character who is both pathetic and terrifying. It’s a committed, go-for-broke performance that elevates the material significantly. Was it unsettling seeing the usually affable Pullman play such a creep? Absolutely, and that’s why it works so well within the film’s bizarre framework.

Ellen DeGeneres, meanwhile, does her best with a character who often feels reactive rather than proactive. Her trademark observational humor and relatable awkwardness shine through in the early scenes, making Martha instantly likable. But as the situation spirals, the script sometimes leaves her stranded, reacting to Whitman’s escalating insanity rather than driving the plot forward. Still, her comedic timing is sharp, and she shares fantastic chemistry with the always-reliable Joan Cusack, whose character gets some of the film's biggest laughs with her relentless matchmaking and later, her horrified reactions. Their sisterly dynamic feels genuinely lived-in.

A Tonal Tightrope Walk

The real talking point of Mr. Wrong has always been its tone. Is it a dark comedy? A stalker thriller with jokes? A satire of romantic expectations? It tries to be all of these things, and the mix isn’t always smooth. Some gags land perfectly, tapping into the absurdity of the situation (like Whitman's truly awful "poetry"). Other moments feel genuinely uncomfortable, pushing the boundaries of what felt acceptable in a mainstream comedy back then. Remember the sheer audacity of some of those scenes? It walked a strange line.

This tonal gamble didn't exactly pay off at the box office; Mr. Wrong reportedly cost around $19 million but only pulled in about $12.8 million domestically. Critics were largely unkind, often pointing out the uneven tone and questioning the blend of humor and abuse. Yet, like so many films from the VHS era, it found a second life on home video. It became one of those rentals you’d pick up out of curiosity, maybe drawn by the stars or the intriguing premise, and end up discussing with your friends precisely because it was so… odd. It wasn't quite a cult classic, but it certainly lingered in the memory as a peculiar artifact of 90s cinema.

Final Reel

Mr. Wrong is far from a perfect film. Its script wobbles, and the blend of tones can be jarring. But viewed through the fuzzy lens of VHS nostalgia, there's a certain charm to its ambition, however flawed. Bill Pullman delivers a memorably creepy performance that’s worth the rental price alone, and Joan Cusack provides reliable comic relief. It’s a fascinating example of a studio trying something different with the rom-com formula, even if it didn’t quite stick the landing.

Rating: 5/10

Justification: The score reflects the film's significant tonal inconsistencies and uneven script, which prevent it from being truly great. However, Pullman's committed performance, Cusack's comedic timing, and the sheer novelty (and occasional effectiveness) of its dark comedy premise earn it points. It's a memorable curiosity rather than a hidden gem.

VHS Rating
5/10

Final Thought: A cinematic blind date that starts charmingly awkward and ends with you checking the locks twice – Mr. Wrong is a weird, sometimes uncomfortable, but undeniably unique 90s comedy experiment best experienced with the forgiving glow of a CRT screen.